We’ve all been taught self-love wrong, and we’re miserable because of it.

What does it mean to love yourself unconditionally?

Is it really possible to love yourself 100% of the time?

In my personal AND professional opinion, the answer is NO.

“But isn’t that what you teach and coach on…?”

Yes, AND there’s more to it than you may realize.

You are always worthy of love–from yourself and others.

But just because the sky exists, doesn’t mean that sometimes it shouldn’t be night/dark.

True self-love is about learning to be okay with your darkness.

Growing up, I was bullied–I was constantly being called “queer”/”fag”/”gay”/etc.

For me, with my religious and social upbringing, being gay or even just a little feminine was considered bad–it was a dark part of myself.

What they said was true. I’m all those things they said.

But now because I’ve embraced it, the darkness isn’t something to fear or be afraid of.

It’s just a beautiful starry night sky.

I invite you to look at what you don’t like about yourself and flip it on its head–how could this actually be something beautiful about me?

Self-love doesn’t mean you love yourself all the time, it means you’re willing to embrace all of who you are (especially the parts of yourself that you don’t like) and shine brighter because of it.

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