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Can you even hear yourself screaming in unsettled and subtle agony?
The screaming inside yourself doesn’t always feel or sound like screaming at all. Sometimes it’s a quiet and subtle unsettled feeling. Other times it’s a full on tortured soul scream from the depths of Hades’ lair. The agony we feel means we are out of alignment with ourselves. It doesn’t mean anything has gone wrong.…
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It’s YOUR time to claim FREEDOM!
TAKE NOTE: I was recently informed that some emails were going directly to JUNK/SPAM folder (especially for gmail). If you have registered for Fu⊄k the Formula but have not received any emails from me, please check your SPAM/JUNK folder and/or email me directly at Cam@CoachWithCam.com or coachwithcam@gmail.com. Please reach out so we can get things…
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Always TIRED? 😪 Read Me.
Being a human can be exhausting. Other people and professionals will tell you that you’re tired because of your sleep cycle, screen time, or your diet and exercise. Although those things play a factor in your health (no contest), the biggest energy drain I see with people (and experienced myself) is the amount of energy…
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3 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Cancelling Plans
You made plans with some friends weeks ago. The day has arrived and you have a million thoughts running through your head. It’s hard to tell which ones are stronger–trying to talk yourself up and into going OR justifying why you should cancel. This is where you take a pause. Breathe. And ask yourself these…
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The only things left were guilt, shame, and blame.
Once upon a time… There was a happy, energetic, and emotional child. They were told they were loud. Then they were told they were too quiet.They were told that they were too much. Then they were told they were not enough.They were told that their emotions were extreme. Then they were told they were too…
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Fu⊄k the Formula!!
I have spent the majority of my life following the formula and abiding by the rules–getting good grades in school, attending church, going to college, finding a good career, getting married, buying a house, always trying to do the “right” thing, etc. In doing so, I learned manners and such, but I didn’t learn how…
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Are you doing things you don’t want to do? 😟
Have you ever gone along with something even though you didn’t actually want to do it? Why didn’t you speak up for what you wanted? Did you go along with it because you wanted to belong? Were you afraid of hurting someone’s feelings? What were you trying to avoid? Feeling awkward, ashamed, or guilty? Let’s…
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Impostor Alert!!
I’ve coached students, stay-at-home moms, doctors, coaches, lawyers, scientific researchers, computer technicians, teachers, you name it! Do you know what they all have in common? They compare themselves with others (peers, family, leaders, etc.) and feel like an impostor. Over the last week or so this has been the main topic of my coaching. I…
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It’s about YOU and your happiness, let them worry about their own
Why is setting boundaries so hard? There are a few common reasons: Protecting Others We take on other people’s emotions. We empathize or sympathize. We try to protect them from discomfort. Aka People-Pleasing Fear of Rejection If they don’t like what I say, they’ll hate me/no longer be in my life. They’ll view me differently. …
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4 Ways to Overcome Social Atrophy
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