Tag: mindset

  • How I Ruined My Vacation…

    How I Ruined My Vacation…

    I’ve been pretty quiet over the last month, doing a lot of self-work and discovery with one of my coaches. It’s really been the journey of 2022 so far–question everything, deconditioning from everything you’ve been taught, evaluate joy and where energy naturally comes from, etc. (e.g. slow down so you can speed up). It’s all…

  • Learning How to Feel Better: The Best Game of Hide and Seek

    Learning How to Feel Better: The Best Game of Hide and Seek

    Do you remember playing hide and seek as a kid? I used to LOVE it! I was in gymnastics and was petit in my younger years so I could squeeze into strange places–laundry baskets, inside a cupboard or armoir, between furniture and the wall, etc. It was fun to be chased and looked for. I…

  • When it’s this valuable, FREE is the best thing that could happen! 🤯 You Can Feel Better Now!

    When it’s this valuable, FREE is the best thing that could happen! 🤯 You Can Feel Better Now!

    Free stuff is only good when it actually provides you with value. The stickers, keychains, etc. all just end up in the landfill. So how about something that’s actually useful? Keep reading. Over the last several weeks, with a noticeable increase this past week, I’ve been doing a TON of coaching on resisting emotion and…

  • The Ultimate Paradox: The need for good and bad?

    The Ultimate Paradox: The need for good and bad?

    Something I have struggled with, and that I see my clients struggling with, is this fantasy that our personalities are all-or-nothing. What I mean by this is that we don’t want to allow ourselves to be complex multidimensional beings. Ex. We’re either always committed or we’re lazy and terrible. Who put this bullsh*t rule into…

  • Rebooting After the Holidays

    Rebooting After the Holidays

    Hello, my beautiful friends! I hope you all survived and thrived throughout the holiday season and are ready to step into 2022. Just a heads up this week’s message maybe a little longer than normal, but I promise it’s worth the read. My feelings about December Similar to some of you, I have separated myself…

  • Poking Holes in Perfectionism

    Poking Holes in Perfectionism

    Did you know that some people don’t recognize they suffer from perfectionism? I was coaching a client who is a very Type-A personality. They were telling me about how “out-of-control” they were feeling–that feeling that all the plates are spinning and are about to crash at any moment. As they were telling me about some…

  • Confidence and your Subconscious

    Confidence and your Subconscious

    Do you ever feel insecure when going out to meet a group of people because you’re afraid they’ll judge you? Or how about feeling like you are not in control of your life and everything is just happening to you? Our subconscious mind interprets what’s happening around us and then stores that information out of…

  • When to Adopt, Adapt, or Abandon

    When to Adopt, Adapt, or Abandon

    You’re doing a  project and you’re in a rut. Doing work feels like you’re banging your head against a wall. Congrats, the primitive part of your human brain is working perfectly!  The primitive part of your brain functions from the motivational triad (conserve energy, avoid pain, seek pleasure). When you’re functioning from that part of…

  • I need to make a public confession…

    I need to make a public confession…

    I’m not who you think I am. I’m not Mr. Positive all the time. I’m not always as excited or engaged as I show in my videos. I’m quiet and contemplative. I live in my head most of the time. I prioritize myself over others. I spend a lot of my “free time” watching tv…

  • Looks can be deceiving…and so can your goals.

    Looks can be deceiving…and so can your goals.

    Looks can be deceiving….so can our ideas–especially when we’re passionate about a project, plan, etc. Honestly, it can be totally exhausting to plan everything, envision how it will be during and after, and then BOOM. It doesn’t go the way we expected. Over the last six weeks, I’ve been co-facilitating a course on confidence working…

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