Hello, my beautiful friend!
Today, I want to ask you to ponder what are you hiding from…?
Oftentimes I see my clients (and let’s be honest, myself too) hide.
We’re afraid to be seen and heard.
But we crave to be understood by others.
If we’re exposed, we can be judged or rejected.
For myself, I recognized I was hiding because the other option was forcing myself to be like others–and that sh*t took so much effort! It was completely draining.
When I couldn’t bring myself to the task because I had low energy, I hid and justified my hiding–including leaning on being an introvert and homebody.
I didn’t socialize much even though I craved more genuine connections in my life.
I didn’t pursue dreams and passions because I couldn’t take another failure in my life.
I pretended, of course. Which did get me some results–a promotion, a house, etc.
But then it all hit a plateau. And if you’ve ever tried to lose weight and hit a lasting plateau you understand how frustrating it can be–you know what the problem is but you just can’t get out of your own way.
If you’re like me, you may have felt (or even be feeling) stuck, confused, frustrated, lonely, unworthy, insecure, etc.
These feelings are totally okay and absolutely normal.
And I want to offer that you don’t have to stay on that hamster wheel and keep hiding.
I’ve been doing a lot of social experimenting lately (practice what you preach, right?) and been having a blast! (much more to come on this…)
No, it doesn’t look like our outgoing friends situation. I’ve created something that feels comfortable (and safe) for me.
If you’ve been craving more connection or just ready to step off the hamster wheel of doom (hehe, I think I’m so funny 😆) ask yourself what’s the smallest, tiniest, most insignificant thing that you can do TODAY to step out of your comfort zone.
Don’t go too big or crazy–just a step or even a toe outside your comfort zone.
Let whatever feelings come before, during, and after.
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