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Tag: authenticity

  • Fu⊄k the Formula!!

    Fu⊄k the Formula!!

    I have spent the majority of my life following the formula and abiding by the rules–getting good grades in school, attending church, going to college, finding a good career, getting married, buying a house, always trying to do the “right” thing, etc. In doing so, I learned manners and such, but I didn’t learn how…

  • Are you doing things you don’t want to do? 😟

    Are you doing things you don’t want to do? 😟

    Have you ever gone along with something even though you didn’t actually want to do it?  Why didn’t you speak up for what you wanted? Did you go along with it because you wanted to belong? Were you afraid of hurting someone’s feelings?  What were you trying to avoid? Feeling awkward, ashamed, or guilty?  Let’s…

  • “I fit in, but I don’t belong.”

    “I fit in, but I don’t belong.”

    Are you the kind of person who adapts easily to others? You can fit in and get along with almost anybody (as long as you need to–want is a different story entirely). I was working with a client today who explained that she fit into a social dynamic but didn’t feel like she belonged. I…

  • It’s time to shine! And you’re the perfect fit 🌟

    It’s time to shine! And you’re the perfect fit 🌟

    If you’ve been wanting more control in your life or just to feel better about yourself more often, listen up! I have some very exciting news!! I’ve been hard at work creating something brand new for YOU, my shy introverted people. Two weeks from yesterday (aka Wednesday, August 10th) I will be starting a new small-group coaching…

  • It’s about YOU and your happiness, let them worry about their own

    It’s about YOU and your happiness, let them worry about their own

    Why is setting boundaries so hard? There are a few common reasons: Protecting Others We take on other people’s emotions. We empathize or sympathize. We try to protect them from discomfort. Aka People-Pleasing  Fear of Rejection  If they don’t like what I say, they’ll hate me/no longer be in my life. They’ll view me differently. …

  • The experiment results are in…and I was not ready for this outcome.

    The experiment results are in…and I was not ready for this outcome.

    A few weeks ago, I mentioned I was in the middle of an experiment. The time has come to fill you all in on what it was and what the results show. At the beginning of April, I deliberately blew up my comfort zone. As an introvert, homebody, and highly sensitive person (HSP), my comfort…

  • I was terrified. So I did the only thing I could think of.

    I was terrified. So I did the only thing I could think of.

    Hello, my beautiful friend! Today, I want to ask you to ponder what are you hiding from…? Oftentimes I see my clients (and let’s be honest, myself too) hide. We’re afraid to be seen and heard. But we crave to be understood by others. If we’re exposed, we can be judged or rejected. For myself,…

  • How I Went From a Wreck to a Badass in 90 Seconds

    How I Went From a Wreck to a Badass in 90 Seconds

    Last week I attended my first ever live mastermind event. It was more incredible than I could have imagined! But I didn’t feel that way going into it… When my husband dropped me off at the airport, I was trembling and shaking with anxiety. I was going to meet friends that I had only met…

  • How I Ruined My Vacation…

    How I Ruined My Vacation…

    I’ve been pretty quiet over the last month, doing a lot of self-work and discovery with one of my coaches. It’s really been the journey of 2022 so far–question everything, deconditioning from everything you’ve been taught, evaluate joy and where energy naturally comes from, etc. (e.g. slow down so you can speed up). It’s all…

  • Learning How to Feel Better: The Best Game of Hide and Seek

    Learning How to Feel Better: The Best Game of Hide and Seek

    Do you remember playing hide and seek as a kid? I used to LOVE it! I was in gymnastics and was petit in my younger years so I could squeeze into strange places–laundry baskets, inside a cupboard or armoir, between furniture and the wall, etc. It was fun to be chased and looked for. I…